By JODI SEIDLER So you find yourself starting to date again, even if you’ve sworn off the opposite sex one more time. You tell yourself all the “This time…I will [fill in the blanks].” But when loneliness kicks in, combined with the need to share one’s life – we opt to try one more time to give romance another try. 1. Have a clear picture of what you want and don’t want in a relationship, and keep that picture in mind. Don’t settle. Sometimes it helps to make a list (not necessarily a three page list, perhaps bullet points will do). A list helps us become clearer about what we want, need and also what our deal breakers might be. No need to be overly critical – remember that no one is perfect, especially in relationships!
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I did make a list a while ago and when I go back and review it here and there. It is always good to make a list!